Finding Light in the Darkness of Alzheimer’s

Alzheimer’s is often described as a thief, stealing memories, independence, and eventually identity itself. But what happens when the disease begins to steal from a family? Patricia J. Pelham knows that pain all too well.

Her memoir, Who’s on First? Alzheimer’s: The Terminal Descent, explores not only the losses brought by Alzheimer’s but also the light that can emerge from within the darkness. Patricia writes about finding humor in unexpected places, about celebrating small victories, and about cherishing the fleeting moments of clarity with her husband Rick.

The key, she discovered, was gratitude. By focusing on what remained—rather than only what was lost—Patricia found resilience. A simple smile, a shared memory, or a whispered prayer became anchors of strength.

For caregivers and families facing Alzheimer’s, this perspective is invaluable. It does not diminish the hardship, but it provides a way forward. Finding light in the darkness does not erase the pain—it makes the journey bearable.

Patricia’s story is not just about decline. It is about hope, faith, and love that refuses to let go.