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Who’s on First? Alzheimer’s: The Terminal Descent is a raw, intimate memoir of love, loss, and resilience. Patricia J. Pelham shares her family’s journey through Alzheimer’s with honesty, courage, and faith. More than a story of decline, it is a testimony of enduring devotion in the face of life’s greatest challenge.

About the Author

Patricia J Pelham

Patricia J. Pelham is a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother whose life was profoundly shaped by her husband Rick’s battle with early-onset Alzheimer’s. For years, Patricia navigated the demanding and heartbreaking role of caregiver, balancing love, faith, and determination while watching the man she loved slowly slip away to the disease.

Writing became both her outlet and her mission. What began as notes jotted in a red notebook and on yellow legal pads transformed into a moving narrative of devotion, resilience, and vulnerability. Patricia never intended to become an author, but her story demanded to be told—not only for herself and her children, but for the countless families who silently endure similar struggles.

Her voice is candid and deeply human, weaving moments of heartbreak with sparks of humor, grace, and gratitude. Through Who’s on First? Alzheimer’s: The Terminal Descent, Patricia gives a voice to caregivers everywhere, offering them companionship and hope.

About the Book

Who's on First

Who’s on First? Alzheimer’s: The Terminal Descent is not a medical guide—it is a personal experience, a journey down the winding, unpredictable path of Alzheimer’s disease. In this memoir, Patricia J. Pelham invites readers into her home, her marriage, and her heart as she chronicles the progression of her husband Rick’s early-onset Alzheimer’s.
From the first subtle signs of forgetfulness to the crushing reality of severe decline, Patricia captures each stage with unflinching honesty. Through anecdotes of humor, sorrow, and resilience, she shows how the disease doesn’t just affect one person, but an entire family. With faith as her anchor and her children as her strength, she reveals the relentless challenges of caregiving—along with the fleeting, precious moments of connection that make the fight worthwhile.
This book is a testimony of love’s endurance. It speaks to anyone touched by Alzheimer’s, offering recognition, comfort, and the reminder that no caregiver walks this road alone.
Ultimately, Who’s on First? Alzheimer’s: The Terminal Descent is a story about the power of memory, the pain of loss, and the resilience of the human spirit.

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Client Testimonials

Dr. Renee Chronister Designation

“Patricia’s story touched my soul. Raw, honest, and deeply human, this memoir is a must-read for anyone touched by Alzheimer’s.”

Melissa G. Designation

“I saw my own journey mirrored in Patricia’s words. She speaks for every caregiver who has struggled in silence.”

Charlotte W. Designation

“This book is heartbreaking yet uplifting. It shows the resilience of love, even as Alzheimer’s takes so much away.”

Shelley K. Designation

“Patricia writes with courage and candor. Her story gives hope and strength to families walking the same path.”

Nancy H. Designation

“More than a memoir—it’s a lifeline for caregivers. Patricia reminds us that love endures, even in the darkest hours.”